Monday, November 15, 2010

North Carolina Vacation -part 1

Okay - so this is going to be an extrememly heavy blog post!
(as will part 2 of this little series)
I want to remember every bit of fun and cherish every single memory of our first big family vacation. We traveled to the Outer Banks in North Carolina to stay with an awesome friend, Mindy, and her Tony and AJ.  We stayed at her family's beach cottage, "Small World" is what they call it.  Her great-grandfather (I believe) built it in 1954 and it sits just over the sand dune from the Atlantic Ocean.  It is on the northern end of the Outer Banks,but it's in a town called Southern Shores :)

We chose to drive the 14+ hours there, so that we could travel to some familiar places along the way and visit good friends.  We took 3 days to drive down and 3 days to drive back, and really it allowed for us to enjoy some 'out of the car' time, swim at the hotels (or as Jack calls them "hotel-ahs" -  it is hilarious and we love it and this is how I will be referring to them from now on!)


Having some fun at one of the service plazas along the Ohio turnpike.


Our second night we stayed in Grantsville, Pennsylvania - very close to a YMCA camp that Tom's friend runs.  Todd lives there with his family and is the director of the camp. 
Its a beautiful camp, surrounded by Amish farmland, the drive there was gorgeous.
It would have been a far more enjoyable ride if the van's rear brakes were not acting up and causing problems.  More on that later...
We arrived just in time for a BBQ dinner, but had to stop by the large stuffed bear in the dining hall!

Quent thought it was cool, and wanted his picture with it.
Jack wanted nothing to do with it so he went and laid on a bench.
After Dinner, the boys  had some play time with Todd and Sarah's girls - that was a much needed break from just Mom and Dad.  The boys had a blast with them!



Both families got together for a group shot before heading out to the campfire and talent show.
Todd, Sarah, and their girls, Fern and Rose with the 4 of us. 

While we waited for the Talent show, we checked out the lake and the playground.

Playtime out of the car - HOORAY!!
Jack's GQ pose on the lifeguard stand. 

How can you NOT have fun in so much sand?!

So, we come to the campfire to watch for a little bit and the campers take turns getting up and doing songs, skits, whatever they want for the audience (the rest of the campers!)
It was quite entertaining and very funny!



Quentin very much wanted to go up on the stage and tell his jokes.  He was very upset that we did not have time to stay and that he was not going to get to have a turn.  So, we convinced him that he should tell his jokes to Todd.  And when Todd laughed his big laugh, Quent was happy and ready to go.  Thanks Todd for helping a little guy out! 


Back to the brake problems, we had gone back to the hotel-ah that night and still smelled a hot brake smell (don't ask me, I had no idea what the smell was).  The van was not accelerating well and the brakes were touchy, so it was a slow ride back to the hotel-ah, but we made ti safe and sound.  We swam in the pool and headed off to bed.  The next morning, Saturday morning, we had planned on leaving early so that we would get into NC while it was still daylight, but Tom got up early to take the van to get looked at instead.  It was a brake caliper problem and basically the rear brake was staying on when it shouldn't.  Therefore making it kinda hard to speed up.
Well, we got that fixed (Yay Tom!) and off we headed!

After a long,rainy drive, here is how we were greeted coming into NC:

B-E-A-U-T-I-F-U-L!
(actually it was a double rainbow, but that is hard to see)

Should say "Welcome to North Carolina"  but you get the gist...

By the time we got to the cottage, it was late and dark, but we were so happy to be there!!
We got settled in, visited a little and let the boys burn off some energy before we all hit the hay.

This is how the boys entertained themselves in the lazy part of the early morning while they were waiting for breakfast.  These boys love their Toy Story and Cars.
Quent on the left, AJ and Jack on the right.

Soon we were headed out for some fun at the beach!
I mean - geez - we are staying AT the beach!!
Up the dune...
"Hi Mom!"
...Down the dune.


And when I say the house sits just over the sand dune, literally you walk over a small dune and you are on the ocean!  You can hear the waves all the time, especially at night, and the breeze is wonderful and pretty much constant.  And even though the days we were pretty warm (90-95 degrees everyday we were there) the nights would cool down and the breeze was fantastic!
 
The boys took to the ocean pretty slowly, first they just wanted to play in the sand.




And we watched Daddy take a big swim into the water. 
Very cool water on a very hot day!

Then Quentin decides he is going to try it out a little with Daddy.





Jack decides he would rather not go into the water today.
Look how cute he is in his little beach hat, just playing in the warm sand!

Quent and Daddy are now braving the waves and sitting in the surf!
WHEW!  That's cold!

"Momma, there is a lizard out here on the porch!"
"Ummm...don't think so, babe!"
Mindy leans over and says, "Actually we do get little skinks here sometimes."

AH - the hammock...
hours of swinging fun on the back porch!
We SO need one of these, as you can tell all the kids had so much fun swinging in that hammock together!
AJ, Roxie (AJ's cousin that could be his twin, that look that much alike and are very close in age) Quent and Jack are laughing like crazy - having the BEST time!!

Since the ocean was just so cold (winds coming in from the west, pushing the warm water out to sea), Mindy had a plan for us to go to the sound (on the other side island - its the water that separates the mainland and the island) for a swim.  It is much warmer and the waves are gentler.
This is Roxie (borrowing one of AJ's swimsuits) and she just jumps right in - she lives very near this beach and is totally a beach baby!

Jack and AJ still are not too sure about this whole thing.  But this is major progress from both boys.  You see AJ would bot even go near the water since he was a baby.  He will not even go over the dune to look at the water, so to get his feet in is MAJOR!
Holding my hand he is braver still!
His Momma was so excited!

All 4 of them finding shells and running in the water.
Don't worry, Lifeguard Tom was out in the water about thigh-deep making sure the chillens were not going out to deep and that they were staying safe.  Us mommas, me and Mindy, were playing right there too and taking pictures of it all!





See - there he is - Lifeguard Tom!
They had little scratches ontheir bellies and chests from laying on the shells that are in the sand, but does it look like they care?!  No way!  It was way too much fun!



The sunset was amazing on the water!



Maybe the only picture of Tom and I (sort of) together taken on the whole trip- Thanks Mindy!

Awesome, Awesome FUN!!!

Probably the BEST beach picture ever!



Sunday, October 31, 2010

Happy Halloween 2010!

We have thoroughly enjoyed this Halloween season, attending parties, dressing up and trick or treating have all been super-fun this year! 
Hope Everyone had a Happy and Safe Halloween!

 Heading out to Trick or Treat in our neighborhood:
Jack was the Fed Ex Delivery Man - complete with a dolly full of packages and 
Quent was a Scary Dinosaur (though I think he was mostly adorable, he swears he was scary!)

 At one house -  (just love that tail on the dinosaur) aren't they quite the cute pair!

And then they were showing off their jack-o-lanterns - 
which they drew themselves and Mom and Dad  helped to carve.
They both did a great job!
Happy Halloween from our handsome Fed Ex Guy and adorable Dinosaur!


Tuesday, October 5, 2010

P is for Preschool

 So, we are coming to the end of our 3rd week in Preschool, and Momma is still standing!!  Actually it was pretty hard those first few days, for me - not them, but we have all adjusted pretty well to our new school schedule.
Of course we took lots of pictures of that momentous first day!

They are ready to go!

 Momma, can we go now?

Okay, but this is the last one, right?
They were so ready to get there!


 At the doors of the school, sporting identical backpacks, rarely do they pick out exactly the same thing, but they HAD to have these!

At their lockers - yes, my preschoolers have their own lockers!
 Sitting down and signing in for the day! 

 Do you think he is happy to be there?!

 Jack is very happy too!

So, then Momma begs the boys for a hug and a kiss before she leaves and they can barely stand still long enough to do that! 
"Okay Mom, Bye!  See you later!" - My Big Boys!
Momma leaves and saves her tears for the car and drives home :(

After what felt like far more than 3 hours, finally it was time to go out to wait for the bus.
 "Here comes their bus!"
 (Papa came over to see the boys come home on their first day and take pictures of them getting off the bus, that way Momma could just give hugs!)

They are loving getting to ride the school bus!

Momma is so happy to see her hot, tired boys after a long morning of preschool!  
They had so much to tell me and absolutely loved preschool and have been loving it everyday since. Everyday they ask if they are going to preschool.  They have made friends that they regularly talk about.  They come home with new songs and new skills and so much to share!  And everyday they remind us that they get to ride the bus home - that is still the best part for them!
And Momma has slowly eased into letting them go and grow and learn away from me, and enjoy the time that I have to do other things by myself.  

Thursday, September 23, 2010

Missing Sarah and Jacob

 I thought of you and closed my eyes,
And prayed to God today.
I asked what makes a Mother,
And I know I heard him say:
A mother has a baby,
This we know is true.
But, God, can you be a mother,
When your baby's not with you?
Yes, you can he replied,
With confidence in his voice.
I give many women babies,
When they leave is not their choice.
Some I send for a lifetime,
And others for a day.
And some I send to feel your womb,
But there's no need to stay.
I just don't understand this God,
I want my baby here.
He took a breath and cleared his throat,
And then I saw a tear.
I wish that I could show you,
What your child is doing today,
If you could see your child smile,
With other children who say:
We go to earth and learn our lessons,
Of love and life and fear.
My mommy loved me oh so much,
I got to come straight here.
I feel so lucky to have a mom,
Who had so much love for me.
I learned my lessons very quickly,
My mommy set me free.
I miss my mommy oh so much,
But I visit her each day.
When she goes to sleep,
On her pillow's where I lay.
I stroke her hair and kiss her cheek,
And whisper in her ear.
"Mommy don't be sad today, I'm your baby and I'm here."
So you see my dear sweet one,
Your children are okay.
Your babies are here in My home,
They'll be at heavens gate for you.
So now you see what makes a mother.
It's the feeling in your heart.
It's the love you had so much of,
Right from the very start.
-Author Unknown


Our Sweet Angels Sarah Jane and Jacob Robert,
Today would have been your 6th birthday, we hope you know how much we love you and miss you today and everyday ♥

Saturday, September 18, 2010

I'll get there...

How did we get from this - 

To this -


Here are some facts that just cannot be ignored:
My babies are 4 years old.
They are starting preschool next week.   
They are super-excited about this.
They have never been in a non-family caregiver situation in their lives.  
I am freaking out.

Don't get me wrong, they are going to school.  I am not going to keep them home just because I am nervous.  We have been preparing them ( and honestly, preparing me too) for this upcoming major milestone and transition.  We have talked about how much fun it will be, how many friends they will have, how much they will learn, AND how Momma does not stay when they go to class, that school is just for the kids and that Momma will be waiting for you when you are done at the end of the day.  And I think that they are okay with the fact that I will be leaving them at preschool 4 days a week for 1/2 a day and that I will be waiting for them to get home on the bus.  

I think THEY are okay with this - but I am feeling doubtful about ME!  I am counting on that I can hold it together until I am out of their sight and then I can go cry like a sissy in the car all I want - just not in front of them.  I am not going to taint what will be an awesome experience for my guys with my fears and worries. 

It's weird because the intense love and need to protect my boys I feel is what makes me worry about them going off without me, but that same love and protectiveness is why I want them to have a great time away from me.  They need this, I know.  I need this, so I am told.  

I'll get there.  I will learn to enjoy their time in school as much as they do.  I will worry less, I will cry less, and I will get there too.  I have come this far as an overprotective Momma.  It was not all that long ago that I would not be able to breathe (physically, literally) when considering the thought of leaving my babies to go back to work.  Leaving them with someone else that was not Gramma or Aunt/Uncle. 

And here we are at the threshold of Preschool.  I have been able to home with them for more than 4 years and what a blessing that has been.  I know how lucky I am.  So, through every tear that I shed (including some as I write this) I will be grateful my boys are getting older and smarter and stronger and more independent.  Grateful, that they are mine and will be home by lunch.


Jack and Quent are going to have an amazing, awesome time in preschool.  
And Momma will get there too ☺